When I think about my Dad, the word that come's to mind is legacy. Dad gave me and my family an incredible legacy that will impact generations to come. So let me tell you a little bit about my Dad and what he meant to me as his son.
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
A Father's Legacy
When I think about my Dad, the word that come's to mind is legacy. Dad gave me and my family an incredible legacy that will impact generations to come. So let me tell you a little bit about my Dad and what he meant to me as his son.
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Hitting the Marriage Jackpot
Winning a lottery is simply a matter of luck. You can't buy marital happiness or success, just look at how many rich people get divorced. And let's say you did win the jack pot, I am sure you have heard the stories of how you wind up having more friends and relatives than you ever realized, and how many couples who win eventually get divorced.
Good marriages take time and work, they don't just happen. There are no shortcuts or magic formulas. Over the years various surveys have been taken which ask happily married couples of various ages what makes their marriage so good. Regardless of the survey or the age of the participants, the number one answer is consistently the same. And it has nothing to do with money. The number one answer as to why couples are happily married is "my spouse is my best friend." This answer certainly means that the husband and wife are spending plenty of quality time together, and they are making the effort required to be best friends.
So my question to you is this, how much time and effort are you investing in your marriage?
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Thursday, October 4, 2012
God's Plan for Restoration
There is nothing like the local church when it's working right. Its beauty is indescribable. Its power is breathtaking. Its potential is unlimited. It comforst the grieving and heals the broken in the context of community. It builds bridges to seekers and offers truth to the confused. It provides resources for those in need and opens it arms to the forgotten, the downtrodden, the disillusioned. It breaks the chains of addicitons, frees the oppressed, and offers belonging to the marginalized of this world. Whatever the capacity for human suffering, the church has a greater capacity for healing and wholeness.
God's church can do what government can never do, speak to the heart in a way that changes a life. When you pray for the upcoming election, take some time to also pray for spiritual revival and awakening. It will make all the difference.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Saturday, September 8, 2012
A Powerful Prayer
As I arise today, may the strength of God pilot me, the power of God uphold me, the wisdom of God guide me, may the eye of God look before me, the ear of God hear me, the Word of God speak for me.
May the hand of God protect me, the way of God lie before me, the shield of God defend me, the host of God save me. May Christ shield me today. Christ with me, Christ before me, Christ behind me, Christ in me, Christ beneath me, Christ above me, Christ on my right, Christ on my left, Christ when I lie down, Christ when I sit, Christ when I stand. Christ in the heart of everyone who thinks of me, Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me, Christ in every eye that sees me, Christ in the ear of everyone who hears me. Amen.
I am not big on reciting pre-written prayers, but I hope you will find this thoughtful prayer an inspiration for your prayer relationship with God. I am using it not to recite word for word, but to mediate on and to inspire my own prayers.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Friday, August 31, 2012
Young Millennials and Faith
Jess Rainer recently co-authored a book on Millenials and is a member of that generation himself. Here are some of his thoughts about this topic. Millennials that enter churches only to find infighting and large amounts of negativity will become frustrated, leave, and avoid the church altogether. Those Millennials with minimal religious convictions will let go of them in order to maintain peace in their own lives.
It's not an easy task to reach the Millennial generation. I am experiencing these difficulties first hand as I reach out to our generation with my church plant. At the same time, I am seeing a small group of younger believers start to desire deeper teaching and community involvement. One of the biggest misconceptions is Millennials are unwilling to commit themselves to the church. It's this small group that is becoming more committed each week. Millennials want to radically commit themselves to something. There is nothing more radical than a true follower of Christ.
I hope we can all commit at the very least to praying for Millennials and then add seeking to build relationships with them.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Monday, August 13, 2012
How Great is Our God
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Thursday, August 9, 2012
Olympic Counter Culture Sexuality
But what many in the media focused on in the days leading to her competition was not her athletic ability, but her virginity. Just like Tim Tebow, the media seems amazed when any accomplished, good looking adult choses to remain abstinent. Both of these athletes have helped to put a new face on abstinence. And the amazement surrounding their choice reveals how countercultural the biblical view of sexuality really is. Being a virgin isn't just a fate left for nerdy, unattractive, pathetic people who were raised by puritanical Christian parents. It is a real choice selected by accomplished adults who are good looking, head turning attractive.
Loir was interviewed on HBO and said this about her decision to remain abstinent: “It’s just a gift I want to give my husband. But please understand this journey has been hard. There’s virgins out there and I want to let them know that it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. Harder than training for the Olympics. Harder than graduating from college has been to stay a virgin before marriage. I’ve been tempted, I’ve had plenty of opportunities.” Sounds like this is a woman who discipline, self-control, who takes biblical morality seriously. Even when it is not an easy path to follow. And to Lori, a path more difficult than training for the Olympics.
God created us as sexual beings to enjoy this experience. God, our creator, also established that the place for sex to be enjoyed is in marriage. Why? Is God a cosmic kill joy who gives us a desire and then limits when He says we can have it? No, and let me illustrate it by looking at the Olympics, specifically swimming. The Olympic committee requires that each swimmer must have a clearly defined lane within which they must compete. Why? Imagine that there were no lane lines and when the gun sounded, swimmers jumped in from various locations on the sides and started swimming in any direction. The result would be chaos and even injury to the swimmers. The lane lines protect each swimmer from interference and provides the best opportunity for the swimmer to succeed.
God has done the same thing with sexuality. He places it in the confines of marriage to protect us from harm and to provide the best place for it to be enjoyed. Marriage protects you from sexually transmitted diseases and the guilt and pain that can come from the "one night stand" and other sexual encounters. Sex once a couple is marriage provides a context of unconditional love and commitment for the couple.
So instead of looking at Lori Jones as an idiot, it seems to me that she is a lot wiser than the people who seem bent on making fun of her.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Team Work
Monday, July 9, 2012
The Latest Dsicovery "Proving" Evolution
What does this matter to a pastor and family counselor? Well, if evolution is true, then the Bible is false. And if the Bible is false, I need to find a new profession. Am I concerned that it is time to start checking the help-wanteds? Not at all. Here are some questions that evolutionist never seem to answer:
1. Where did the god particle come from? According to the laws of thermodynamics, it could come from nothing. Seems to me you need a creator for that.
2. How can anything as intricate, complex, and ordered be the result of an explosion? When you look at any explosion, it results in disorder, not order. Oops, there's are those pesky laws of thermodynamics again.
3. Here is a new one just for the good people at the labs which discovered the god particle. How did this explosion in your labs happen in the first place? Was it a random, change event that took place on its own? Not hardly, scientists worked for years creating the conditions for this to take place. In other words, it took intelligent minds with a purpose to actually create this explosion. Seems to me this, at the very least, supports the theory of intelligent design.
So I will continue to live very secure that God is, and He is the creator of all that exists.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Supporting Our Troops
In my ministry with Insight Christian Counseling and at Davisville Church I have worked with a number of soldiers who have come back from the front who have struggled with depression and suicide. Just last week I was contacted by the parents of a 21 year old Marine who just completed his first combat tour. Thankfully he is not struggling with suicide, but he is very depressed and very anxious compared to how he was prior to going into combat. What strikes me as I talk to people in the military is how unequipped it is to deal with these issues. In the USA Today article, Army Col. Carl Castro is quoted as saying, "We were slow to react (at first) because we weren't sure it was an anomoly or it was a real trend. Then it just takes time to program the money and get the studies up and going. Everything we do in suicide prevention, there's no evidence it works." What a striking admission from the man who is leading the army's efforts to find effective forms of treatment and prevention.
Pray for me as I work with this young Marine, and pray for all of our troops as many of them will be returning to life here in the US or leaving the military and adjusting to civilian life. There are answers, and they are found in God and His word. I have seen God transform a depressed, suicidal, angry soldier into a someone who is at peace with himself and a blessing to others.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
The Ugly Reality of Sex Trafficing
Child prostitution is a problem the FBI says is getting worse. "The money involved in prostituting children is much higher than just regular prostitution," said FBI agent John Gillies. Morgan Perry, a Christian, is the executive producer of the recently-released documentary entitled Sex and Money. She found that the average age of entry for a prostitute in the United States is 12-years-old, 12 to 13. So we're looking anywhere from 11 to 17- years-old. Every once in a while, the public hears about human trafficking in the U.S., like the raids that took place in October in 36 cities. Nearly 1,600 agents and officers worked together to bring federal and state charges against 691 suspects. According to the Children at Risk website, globally around 800,000 people are trafficked each year and become victims of commercial sex exploitation and forced labor. Eighty percent of these victims are women and children.
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Living Together Before Marriage
Recently the New York Times featured an interesting article on the topic. Now I never thought I would encourage people to read the NYT, and I don't agree with everything the author says, but she makes some good points that are worth reading. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/15/opinion/sunday/the-downside-of-cohabiting-before-marriage.html?pagewanted=1&_r=3&ref=general&src=me
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Thursday, April 5, 2012
A Mother's Decision
Here is a mother's true story that involved a decision of life and death.
Pam and her husband Bob were serving as missionaries to the Philippines and praying for a fifth child. They made a pledge to God that if they were given a son, they would name him Timothy and raise him to be a preacher.
Pam then contracted amoebic dysentery, an infection of the intestine caused by a parasite from contaminated food or drink. After going into a coma, she was treated with strong antibiotics … before they discovered she was pregnant. Doctors urged her to abort the baby for her own safety and told her that the medicines had caused irreversible damage to her baby. Despite nearly losing her baby four different times, Pam refused an abortion, citing her Christian faith as the source of her hope that her son would be born without the predicted devastating disabilities.
Pam spent the last two months of her pregnancy in bed before giving birth to a healthy baby boy on August 14, 1987. Pam's youngest son is indeed a preacher. He preaches in prisons, makes hospital visits, and serves with his father's ministry in the Philippines. He also plays a little football. You may have heard of Pam and Bob's son: Tim Tebow, quarterback for the Denver Broncos.
Blessings,
Dr. Paul
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
A Profoundly Moving Film
Friday, March 23, 2012
Government Tyranny
Friday, February 24, 2012
The Beginning of the End for Planned Parenthood
Thursday, February 9, 2012
You Go Girl!
In an era where many women seem to feel that exposing more is better, I gotta say this young lady has gained my respect and admiration! If you have a daughter, get her to read and see this story about Kylie Bisutti. Now I am waiting to see the flack she will get for taking this stand. Ladies, how about standing with her?
Blessings,
Dr. Paul